This study aims to see how parenting patterns can affect children's personalities and how they are formed, thisstudy is a literature study which is the initial step in the data collection method. The life of a nuclear family consistingof a father and mother is the earliest center and is very decisive in the process of fostering, educating and formingchildren's personalities since early childhood, even since they are still in the womb. It is from the family that childrengain experience and educational touch for the first time, both physically and morally spiritually.